Post by Amiyna on Jul 26, 2004 13:33:48 GMT -5
I've been writing back and forth to a guy that is incarcerated for a year now. He was my first everything and we got back in contact with eachother last year. Sometimes I wonder is he worth the stamps, but most times I can actually say I'm falling in love with him mentally and emotionally.
He wrote me a letter today and he got me kinda stumped at what he wrote, now I'm not the type who reads things and my third eye aint open...well...I'll just let yal read some of the letter, other parts are to freaky deaky
Salaam alayk
kayf halick blah blah blah
"I know my letters are starting to become redundant but this is the only way to stay in contact with you so that we can keep eachother in eachothers hearts and memory" blah blah blah
"I have a question for you, how can you love a man that could'nt possibly provide for you the way it should be done, from behind stone walls?"
"The reason I ask you this is so that I can get an understanding on how certain women think, concerning their men being locked up, men are born totally inept sexually, we only learn how to please a woman by pleasing women. so as rotten as that may seem practice makes perfect.
[from me] Now keep in mind I done told dude the why's and how's and when you come home's all year and the last. What I'm getting out of this question is is he tryna compare me with another chick that he's conversing with on the extracuricular note? Seems that way to me because he's twenty seven and hes been in there for seven years. Any way he goes on to say this:
"Every woman I've been with has not only taken what I learned from the last woman but she has taught me things also and has prepared me for the next one" "I am now in the position to love one woman, and that woman is you."
You are blah blah blah
Now I know dudes go in and outta depression while in the joint but I honestly need some insight as to where you think hes coming from.
Ok heres more of our situation. Last year when we started chating and so forth I was living with my moms,
she started choose her husband[my step
]
over me and threw me outta the house. I'm 22 and I was still in college with no job. I had no other choice but to marry this guy from uzbekistan and for those who know anything about marriage in islam [sunni] then you know that it don't take nothing but a couple sitdowns and voila your married.
Now my dude in jail found out I did this through the grape vine and I stopped speaking to him for three months but I explained why I did this, basically for convenience, anyway dude gets out next july and I often wonder if it'll work, I know he might try to play pay backs even though he says he forgive me...well I'll stop here and wait for opinions...if any.
He wrote me a letter today and he got me kinda stumped at what he wrote, now I'm not the type who reads things and my third eye aint open...well...I'll just let yal read some of the letter, other parts are to freaky deaky
Salaam alayk
kayf halick blah blah blah
"I know my letters are starting to become redundant but this is the only way to stay in contact with you so that we can keep eachother in eachothers hearts and memory" blah blah blah
"I have a question for you, how can you love a man that could'nt possibly provide for you the way it should be done, from behind stone walls?"
"The reason I ask you this is so that I can get an understanding on how certain women think, concerning their men being locked up, men are born totally inept sexually, we only learn how to please a woman by pleasing women. so as rotten as that may seem practice makes perfect.
[from me] Now keep in mind I done told dude the why's and how's and when you come home's all year and the last. What I'm getting out of this question is is he tryna compare me with another chick that he's conversing with on the extracuricular note? Seems that way to me because he's twenty seven and hes been in there for seven years. Any way he goes on to say this:
"Every woman I've been with has not only taken what I learned from the last woman but she has taught me things also and has prepared me for the next one" "I am now in the position to love one woman, and that woman is you."
You are blah blah blah
Now I know dudes go in and outta depression while in the joint but I honestly need some insight as to where you think hes coming from.
Ok heres more of our situation. Last year when we started chating and so forth I was living with my moms,
she started choose her husband[my step
]over me and threw me outta the house. I'm 22 and I was still in college with no job. I had no other choice but to marry this guy from uzbekistan and for those who know anything about marriage in islam [sunni] then you know that it don't take nothing but a couple sitdowns and voila your married.
Now my dude in jail found out I did this through the grape vine and I stopped speaking to him for three months but I explained why I did this, basically for convenience, anyway dude gets out next july and I often wonder if it'll work, I know he might try to play pay backs even though he says he forgive me...well I'll stop here and wait for opinions...if any.
Make sure this cat in jail aint another of those moozlimz that like keepin U in the house and walking steps behind him. Be spiritually compatible.
. That is not a good sign for the new brother trying to court you. I understand your situation though. You must be in NY lol, I know a few chicks who have married for a few g's and a credit card or free rent. 