Have Women Become to Easy?///

[Zakiah Levanah]

Women Have Become Too Easy

By Curt Smith

Dear Curt,
I'm a 35-year-old woman, and met a very handsome 43-year-old man named Daniel. We've been dating for five months now and still haven't slept together.

My problem is that in the beginning, Daniel asked me how many men I've slept with. Being a little scared of his reaction, I lied and told him seven. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven't slept with him yet.

I told him I didn't want to make love because I was scared that he'd lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three.

His reply was, "Hmm, one for each of my birthdays." And from that day on, I never heard from him again. I don't get it Curt, why is it that when men sleep around, they're studs, yet when women sleep around, they're sluts? Why can't women have their fun too?

Stacy Jones, TX

times have changed



I receive a lot of e-mail from women asking the same question Stacy poses. So I finally decided to give my take on the subject. But before I begin, allow me to stress that I'm not passing judgment on women, nor am I saying that women shouldn't enjoy themselves sexually. Hey, I'm enjoying the abundant supply of women too. The following explains how most men feel, and why some of us can't handle the truth.

An object that has value is worshipped, respected, cherished, and shared with very few deserving people. As soon as you start sharing that object with anyone and without care, the object starts to lose value. The more people use the object, the more it depreciates and the less bargaining power it has: this is a plain psychological fact of life.

Most women don't realize the importance men place on a woman's promiscuity. Women think that because men don't care about how many women they've slept with, they won't care about how many men their woman has slept with. But the reality is that most men (those looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand) do place great value on a woman's sexual restraint.

There was a time when many women cherished their bodies much like a sacred temple. Where only a noble man, one who respected and loved her, had access to her body.

But over time, it seems that women have failed to realize the important role their sexuality plays in finding a long-term mate. Thanks to the women's movement, women are so busy trying to compete with men -- including in the sex department -- that they fail to realize the consequences of their actions.

Today, it seems that women are the ones who are collecting notches on their Prada belts by giving their bodies away too easily. But if women themselves don't value their bodies like they used to, why should men?

Some women will argue that if men have the right to sleep around, so should women. But I ask only one question: If women adamantly believe this, then why is it that when faced with the question, "How many men have you slept with?", most women who have slept around with truckloads of men always lie?

Some women will rationalize that they must do so because men can't handle the truth. But if this is the case, why don't women let men decide for themselves if they can or can't handle it? Why do women need to lie to protect men's egos? I think women lie to protect themselves -- rather than men -- because if it's not shame or regret that's making you hold your tongue, then the potentially dire consequences of the truth surely are.

The power lies with women...

[Zakiah Levanah]

the power of a woman's sexuality



Women have sexual propositions directly or indirectly thrown at them every single day. Because of this abundant supply of penis, women have the final decision to act on or ignore such propositions, and the men looking for long-term mates fear this.

Men, on the other hand, don't necessarily have women on bended knee with diamond rings and gold bracelets, so they pretty much take it when they can. Maybe this is one of the reasons why men, unlike women, find it so hard to resist the advancements of the opposite sex.

You see, men know how hard it is to control themselves. Think about it for a moment: how many times have you heard men say, "Gee, if I was a woman, I'd be getting laid every day?"

Men recognize the power of a woman's sexuality. In turn, men appreciate and place great value on women who can control themselves and demonstrate a certain degree of sexual discipline because most men certainly can't.

If a woman can show men that she is honest, loyal, trustworthy, and sexually responsible, then she will have the most powerful weapon to attract men. If, on the other hand, a woman abuses her sexual power with many men, it will backfire on her. Unfortunately, women only realize this after they've had their "women's movement fun," when it's too late and the only choice they have is to lie.

[Zakiah Levanah]

why do women do it?



Over the past years, most women have lost a sense of value for their sexuality. They've realized that sex is fun and pleasurable, but in the process, they've forgotten that it's the one gift that they can offer their lover, and that so many men value.

Think about it for a moment: if men value a woman's purity so much, how do you think they feel when they receive the same gift offered to so many other men? Here's a better example: if I were to offer Stacy the same engagement ring that I once offered my ex-fiancée, would she appreciate it? I'm sure she wouldn't, and it's only a ring. Then how do you think men feel when a woman offers herself once she's already offered it to so many other men?

Women have lost sight of their own true value for several reasons:

Mistaken sex for love
As more and more women put their careers ahead of their social lives, they're getting married at a later age. But because of an emotional void, some find the wait a little too long and replace love with sex.

Competition
Some women are very much aware that there are a lot of women giving themselves away too easily and fear that if they're not giving it to their man, another woman will.

I'm not saying that a woman should wait for marriage before having sex. All I'm suggesting is that she wait a little bit before giving her sacred body away. I know the pleasure of sex is worthy, but a woman is only shooting herself in the foot by giving it away at the drop of a dime.

A woman should give the man the test of time and make him wait at least three months before having full intercourse with him. If he can't wait that long, well her life just became a little less complicated because she knows that she's dealing with a man who is just using her for her body. In the end, she'll have peace of mind that she didn't waste her precious gift on a man who simply wanted to use her.

Women's movement & media
Both the women's movement and the media have encouraged women to compete with men in all aspects of life, including sex. Unfortunately, they forgot to mention the consequences, and now you have very happy men who don't need to commit, and very sad women wondering why men don't want to.

So what can guys do about it?

[Zakiah Levanah]

what men want



Most men will agree that they're always on the lookout for a serious soul mate. But this doesn't mean that they can't have fun in the process. So if there are women giving themselves away without commitment, men will definitely pounce on the opportunity.

Inadvertently, when men meet women, they usually categorize them into two categories: the potentially serious relationship kind, or the "have fun in the process" girl. The outcome of the man's decision will ultimately be based on how a woman behaves around him.

If she sleeps with him on the first few nights, he'll definitely throw her in the fun category. But if she can show him that her body is worth a lot more and that he's going to have to commit to a serious relationship before he can taste her, he'll definitely consider her as serious potential.

Why do we men behave in such a way? Because we are very much aware of how hard it is to control ourselves when seduced by women. Therefore, we fear women who are equally sexually active -- especially when they have dozens of men courting them -- because they also lack that control.

the consequences



The women's sexual movement had women across the United States screaming, "We want equal treatment! We want to be able to do everything men do! We want to have sex!" Well, women did just that and unfortunately, they abused their sexual magic to the point where it lost its value over time.

There used to be a time when women could signal to a man, "If you stay with me, I'll let you have my body." But now men are saying, "It's okay, you can keep it because with all this supply, it's just not worth as much as it once was."

That's why today, we find a lot of women complaining that men no longer want to commit. This is false; men still want to commit, but women no longer have that special gift to bait men into a relationship.

After all, if the body becomes familiar and the personality becomes aggravating, what else is there left to commit to? Well, I'd like to think that it is the woman's special gift that keeps a man hooked.

it's not too late... is it?



Women need to realize that their bodies are temples -- or at least men like to think so -- and that they shouldn't be shared with any Tom, Dick or Harry. Once a woman realizes this, three things will happen:

1. She'll appreciate herself a lot more, and in turn the man will gain more respect for her and realize that he has a valuable treasure.

2. The man who had to work hard and commit in order to bed a woman will appreciate her more. After all, time was invested in her.

3. The sex will be brought to a whole new passionate level when she finally makes love to the man who fought for her -- by being patient.

Today too many people -- including myself -- place too much importance on sex. This explains why so many marriages don't work. People base their whole relationship on sex and don't realize that when the passion disappears, and the honeymoon phase dies down, there is nothing left but each other's flaws.

My comment


My mom is 56 and has only been with 3 men.
If you are unmarried under 40 and your men out number your years on the planet... or at the rate your going you'll have a 1 per year average by 40 but you started at 17 ect... slow down!!!

[1dell]

Jesus CHRIST!!! 43 men??? OH HELLZ NO!!! hell yeah she is a slut!!!

The reason why is because a man is a conquerer, with sex it's a matter of yielding and taking. Men are takers, women are yielders. So its like this do you hate a king who has Conquered 43 countries? OH HELL NO!!! HIstory will see him as a great king. What about a King who has been conquered 43 times and been defeated 43 times. He will be made out to be a beeyatch all thru out history.

When it comes to sex men do the thrashing do the pouding do the punishing. But when it comes to sex women take the thrashing take the ravishing take the pounding take the punishment. That affects their physiology. the shape of your twats are affected. And women attach themselves emotionally to that a man during sex GIVING herself to him. But men can have sex and NEVER invest emotionality into a woman. He can see her the next day at work and not even feel compelled to say hi to her ass.

Then there is a matter of a man wanting NOT to be compared. See with a man and sex he can have sex with a woman and it can feel good no matter what the woman does. But not so with a woman. Guys have to come correct with some skill and knowledge of how to either hit the right spot, have the right equipment to hit the spots, have to know HOW to eat pudding, just licking it won't get the job done. Has to have the right rhythm in his hips, has to have endurance, has to multitask, he has to know what to say and when to say it. KNow how to touch yada yada yada. There are MANY men that don't know what the HELL they are doing. So I guess a man insecure in his skills will be afraid that if he runs up on a woman that has had sex 43x then he has A LOT to be compared to. And a woman will compare your ass in a heart beat, where as a man can easily forget about the ass he just had last week.

Then too it's like man have in their minds that each time a woman has had sex, she has been used like a rag. Just imagine her having had sex that many times. The concept in his mind is she is used up. And a woman who has had that much sex and god knows how little time is proof positive that she has been preoccupied with it and is lacking something internally. Inately a man wants a virgin. And the closer to a virgin a woman is the better he is pleased. Men know that men damage women and the moor a woman has sex with different men the moor she endures damage.

Now for a one night stand yeah a guy don't give a shit how many dudes you been with. But for a long term relationship that ish matters because again the comparisons come into play. Not only that but a man gets jealous thinking about his woman with another man. Just think if you had 43 different men to imagine your woman with!!!! And aint no telling HOW MANY TIMES she screwed each and every one of them.

If I know a woman has been with many men, I sure as HELL will not be interested than anything other than some uteral intrusions on the casual.

Oh yeah, then the probabilty mentally is that the moor dudes you been with the moor you have been humbled and the moor likely you will have venarial disease

Also let me add this, I am DEATHLY afraid of going to a party with my lady and seeing several guys at the party whispering and point at our direction and laffing. And then upon further investigation, find out that they were former lovers of my lady and they were laffing about how they used to fuck her and and going over the details with other dudes. And we be getting stares and shit. That is MOST embarassing.

Thats why when I was 15 years old I studied the female anatomy with zeal!!! I was determined to be an unforgetable experience.

Anav said:

Women Have Become Too Easy

By Curt Smith

Dear Curt,
I'm a 35-year-old woman, and met a very handsome 43-year-old man named Daniel. We've been dating for five months now and still haven't slept together.

My problem is that in the beginning, Daniel asked me how many men I've slept with. Being a little scared of his reaction, I lied and told him seven. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven't slept with him yet.

I told him I didn't want to make love because I was scared that he'd lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three.

His reply was, "Hmm, one for each of my birthdays." And from that day on, I never heard from him again. I don't get it Curt, why is it that when men sleep around, they're studs, yet when women sleep around, they're sluts? Why can't women have their fun too?

Stacy Jones, TX

times have changed



I receive a lot of e-mail from women asking the same question Stacy poses. So I finally decided to give my take on the subject. But before I begin, allow me to stress that I'm not passing judgment on women, nor am I saying that women shouldn't enjoy themselves sexually. Hey, I'm enjoying the abundant supply of women too. The following explains how most men feel, and why some of us can't handle the truth.

An object that has value is worshipped, respected, cherished, and shared with very few deserving people. As soon as you start sharing that object with anyone and without care, the object starts to lose value. The more people use the object, the more it depreciates and the less bargaining power it has: this is a plain psychological fact of life.

Most women don't realize the importance men place on a woman's promiscuity. Women think that because men don't care about how many women they've slept with, they won't care about how many men their woman has slept with. But the reality is that most men (those looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand) do place great value on a woman's sexual restraint.

There was a time when many women cherished their bodies much like a sacred temple. Where only a noble man, one who respected and loved her, had access to her body.

But over time, it seems that women have failed to realize the important role their sexuality plays in finding a long-term mate. Thanks to the women's movement, women are so busy trying to compete with men -- including in the sex department -- that they fail to realize the consequences of their actions.

Today, it seems that women are the ones who are collecting notches on their Prada belts by giving their bodies away too easily. But if women themselves don't value their bodies like they used to, why should men?

Some women will argue that if men have the right to sleep around, so should women. But I ask only one question: If women adamantly believe this, then why is it that when faced with the question, "How many men have you slept with?", most women who have slept around with truckloads of men always lie?

Some women will rationalize that they must do so because men can't handle the truth. But if this is the case, why don't women let men decide for themselves if they can or can't handle it? Why do women need to lie to protect men's egos? I think women lie to protect themselves -- rather than men -- because if it's not shame or regret that's making you hold your tongue, then the potentially dire consequences of the truth surely are.

The power lies with women...

[1dell]

All very true

Anav said:

the power of a woman's sexuality



Women have sexual propositions directly or indirectly thrown at them every single day. Because of this abundant supply of penis, women have the final decision to act on or ignore such propositions, and the men looking for long-term mates fear this.

Men, on the other hand, don't necessarily have women on bended knee with diamond rings and gold bracelets, so they pretty much take it when they can. Maybe this is one of the reasons why men, unlike women, find it so hard to resist the advancements of the opposite sex.

You see, men know how hard it is to control themselves. Think about it for a moment: how many times have you heard men say, "Gee, if I was a woman, I'd be getting laid every day?"

Men recognize the power of a woman's sexuality. In turn, men appreciate and place great value on women who can control themselves and demonstrate a certain degree of sexual discipline because most men certainly can't.

If a woman can show men that she is honest, loyal, trustworthy, and sexually responsible, then she will have the most powerful weapon to attract men. If, on the other hand, a woman abuses her sexual power with many men, it will backfire on her. Unfortunately, women only realize this after they've had their "women's movement fun," when it's too late and the only choice they have is to lie.

[1dell]

Truer words aint neva been spoken

Anav said:

why do women do it?



Over the past years, most women have lost a sense of value for their sexuality. They've realized that sex is fun and pleasurable, but in the process, they've forgotten that it's the one gift that they can offer their lover, and that so many men value.

Think about it for a moment: if men value a woman's purity so much, how do you think they feel when they receive the same gift offered to so many other men? Here's a better example: if I were to offer Stacy the same engagement ring that I once offered my ex-fiancée, would she appreciate it? I'm sure she wouldn't, and it's only a ring. Then how do you think men feel when a woman offers herself once she's already offered it to so many other men?

Women have lost sight of their own true value for several reasons:

Mistaken sex for love
As more and more women put their careers ahead of their social lives, they're getting married at a later age. But because of an emotional void, some find the wait a little too long and replace love with sex.

Competition
Some women are very much aware that there are a lot of women giving themselves away too easily and fear that if they're not giving it to their man, another woman will.

I'm not saying that a woman should wait for marriage before having sex. All I'm suggesting is that she wait a little bit before giving her sacred body away. I know the pleasure of sex is worthy, but a woman is only shooting herself in the foot by giving it away at the drop of a dime.

A woman should give the man the test of time and make him wait at least three months before having full intercourse with him. If he can't wait that long, well her life just became a little less complicated because she knows that she's dealing with a man who is just using her for her body. In the end, she'll have peace of mind that she didn't waste her precious gift on a man who simply wanted to use her.

Women's movement & media
Both the women's movement and the media have encouraged women to compete with men in all aspects of life, including sex. Unfortunately, they forgot to mention the consequences, and now you have very happy men who don't need to commit, and very sad women wondering why men don't want to.

So what can guys do about it?

[1dell]

True and a 1000 times true

Anav said:

what men want



Most men will agree that they're always on the lookout for a serious soul mate. But this doesn't mean that they can't have fun in the process. So if there are women giving themselves away without commitment, men will definitely pounce on the opportunity.

Inadvertently, when men meet women, they usually categorize them into two categories: the potentially serious relationship kind, or the "have fun in the process" girl. The outcome of the man's decision will ultimately be based on how a woman behaves around him.

If she sleeps with him on the first few nights, he'll definitely throw her in the fun category. But if she can show him that her body is worth a lot more and that he's going to have to commit to a serious relationship before he can taste her, he'll definitely consider her as serious potential.

Why do we men behave in such a way? Because we are very much aware of how hard it is to control ourselves when seduced by women. Therefore, we fear women who are equally sexually active -- especially when they have dozens of men courting them -- because they also lack that control.

the consequences



The women's sexual movement had women across the United States screaming, "We want equal treatment! We want to be able to do everything men do! We want to have sex!" Well, women did just that and unfortunately, they abused their sexual magic to the point where it lost its value over time.

There used to be a time when women could signal to a man, "If you stay with me, I'll let you have my body." But now men are saying, "It's okay, you can keep it because with all this supply, it's just not worth as much as it once was."

That's why today, we find a lot of women complaining that men no longer want to commit. This is false; men still want to commit, but women no longer have that special gift to bait men into a relationship.

After all, if the body becomes familiar and the personality becomes aggravating, what else is there left to commit to? Well, I'd like to think that it is the woman's special gift that keeps a man hooked.

it's not too late... is it?



Women need to realize that their bodies are temples -- or at least men like to think so -- and that they shouldn't be shared with any Tom, Dick or Harry. Once a woman realizes this, three things will happen:

1. She'll appreciate herself a lot more, and in turn the man will gain more respect for her and realize that he has a valuable treasure.

2. The man who had to work hard and commit in order to bed a woman will appreciate her more. After all, time was invested in her.

3. The sex will be brought to a whole new passionate level when she finally makes love to the man who fought for her -- by being patient.

Today too many people -- including myself -- place too much importance on sex. This explains why so many marriages don't work. People base their whole relationship on sex and don't realize that when the passion disappears, and the honeymoon phase dies down, there is nothing left but each other's flaws.

My comment


My mom is 56 and has only been with 3 men.
If you are unmarried under 40 and your men out number your years on the planet... or at the rate your going you'll have a 1 per year average by 40 but you started at 17 ect... slow down!!!

[Zakiah Levanah]

1dell said:

Jesus CHRIST!!! 43 men??? OH HELLZ NO!!! hell yeah she is a slut!!!

The reason why is because a man is a conquerer, with sex it's a matter of yielding and taking. Men are takers, women are yielders. So its like this do you hate a king who has Conquered 43 countries? OH HELL NO!!! HIstory will see him as a great king. What about a King who has been conquered 43 times and been defeated 43 times. He will be made out to be a beeyatch all thru out history.

When it comes to sex men do the thrashing do the pouding do the punishing. But when it comes to sex women take the thrashing take the ravishing take the pounding take the punishment. That affects their physiology. the shape of your twats are affected. And women attach themselves emotionally to that a man during sex GIVING herself to him. But men can have sex and NEVER invest emotionality into a woman. He can see her the next day at work and not even feel compelled to say hi to her ass.

Then there is a matter of a man wanting NOT to be compared. See with a man and sex he can have sex with a woman and it can feel good no matter what the woman does. But not so with a woman. Guys have to come correct with some skill and knowledge of how to either hit the right spot, have the right equipment to hit the spots, have to know HOW to eat pudding, just licking it won't get the job done. Has to have the right rhythm in his hips, has to have endurance, has to multitask, he has to know what to say and when to say it. KNow how to touch yada yada yada. There are MANY men that don't know what the HELL they are doing. So I guess a man insecure in his skills will be afraid that if he runs up on a woman that has had sex 43x then he has A LOT to be compared to. And a woman will compare your ass in a heart beat, where as a man can easily forget about the ass he just had last week.

Then too it's like man have in their minds that each time a woman has had sex, she has been used like a rag. Just imagine her having had sex that many times. The concept in his mind is she is used up. And a woman who has had that much sex and god knows how little time is proof positive that she has been preoccupied with it and is lacking something internally. Inately a man wants a virgin. And the closer to a virgin a woman is the better he is pleased. Men know that men damage women and the moor a woman has sex with different men the moor she endures damage.

Now for a one night stand yeah a guy don't give a shit how many dudes you been with. But for a long term relationship that ish matters because again the comparisons come into play. Not only that but a man gets jealous thinking about his woman with another man. Just think if you had 43 different men to imagine your woman with!!!! And aint no telling HOW MANY TIMES she screwed each and every one of them.

If I know a woman has been with many men, I sure as HELL will not be interested than anything other than some uteral intrusions on the casual.

Oh yeah, then the probabilty mentally is that the moor dudes you been with the moor you have been humbled and the moor likely you will have venarial disease

Also let me add this, I am DEATHLY afraid of going to a party with my lady and seeing several guys at the party whispering and point at our direction and laffing. And then upon further investigation, find out that they were former lovers of my lady and they were laffing about how they used to fuck her and and going over the details with other dudes. And we be getting stares and shit. That is MOST embarassing.

Thats why when I was 15 years old I studied the female anatomy with zeal!!! I was determined to be an unforgetable experience.

The sad part with this woman is that she seems to have been fooled out of sex 43 times by men she thought wanted a commitment. I was like dayum what is the criteria for getting it from you. Woman definately need a time frame. Also if he is so soulmate like to give up azz in 2 weeks then ask him to marry you and see what he says. I agree with the wait at least 3 months, your sure to increase your value, or his want or worse case scenerio become a total bore without a new notch on your belt. There is no way you could know someone is for you and that you will be with them forever in less than 3 mos (only from your point of view). That is from their point of view anyway. With 43 notches at 35, its easy for me to assume every nicca she meets with a twinkle in his eye is marriage material for her, hense her giving up azz. Maybe she needs to up her standards because she seems a tad desperate, and some men will flatter themselves with your desperation but usually not for long. Even if he has every compatibility in the book, doesn't mean there will not be other obstacles that may prevent him from being the one.
Woman now a days play the relationship game like drunk gamblers competing for the pot, desperate because they running outta chips and never stopped to rethink their strategy, or just out to have fun. But when your 35 with 43 sexual partners, that is a crap out. I bet if they thought about it 30 men ago she could have set a standard and a plan for herself. I'm like dayum when did you think you had to many sexual partners? If a woman has had more than 2 sexual partners in a one year period and isn't shocked and examining the problem (if that even is a problem). That will sure have become 10 notches or more in 5 years .

MODIFIED

[kAHANyAH]

this chic is a skrate up slut. 43x! OMG!

[gamaliel]

Baal said:

this chic is a skrate up slut. 43x! OMG!

She's a slut for sleepin' with 43 dudes? Ive been with way more than that (not braggin)! So then that makes me a man-whore? Well not now cause I aint with nobody but during the late 80's and 90's.

[Zakiah Levanah]

gamaliel said:

She's a slut for sleepin' with 43 dudes? Ive been with way more than that (not braggin)! So then that makes me a man-whore? Well not now cause I aint with nobody but during the late 80's and 90's.

LOL at man whore. Most men are, no offense. Who wants a man that been with 2 girls???.... Unless yall been together since High school. Somebody has to have the skillz lol.

Its different with a sister, especially one with any sense and self love.
Most woman with that many notches have started young and are probably on a road to destruction if maturity does not bring along a deep love for the self.
No male ego wants his woman to be more experienced due to the amount of lovers she had.
Lots of woman think outwardly maintenace and pampering means self love.
I think self discipline and not following your flesh, be it over eating or sexual promiscuity is really self love.

43 sexual partners, imagine how many ejaculated in her
Science says that lots of sexual partners means lots of different bacteria in your uterus which usually becomes part of you .
This causes abnormal cell growth and uteral cancer
Also on a mental scope, sex is sacred to most woman or so they say.
It is a bonding or a coming together physically , mentally and for some spiritually.
The woman is being entered internally & thats serious, with the wrong intentions it becomes a violation.

Sisters talk the talk but are just as hard up as brothers nowadays, no offense.

I was talking to a sister a few nights ago who thought she was great in bed because she had a high sex drive like the guy she had been sleeping with. Since he told her this she assumed this made her better than his other lover and more matched with him sexually (also the fact that he was hitting it).
If I was a guy I'd think hey if she wants to screw all day with me then she probably just wants to screw all day (but it does serve its purpose).
This same chic went on to tell me that she'd be down with polygany with this dude because she knew he could handle it, the only thing stopping her was the dudes Ishah who wasn't down.
She said she didn't need the dude like his Ishah did and bragged about being desired over the Ishah.
I was like whooo any dude would love responsibility free puddy girl, whats wrong with ya! But this made her feel powerful and in control.

Brothers imagine a world of no real commitment, just casual sex and some fun and games. Knowing you never had to really commit because you were already commited to someone else. The best part is "Independant Woman" from "Charlies Angels" was their theme music & they didn't need you financially. No loss!!
Unlike the Gold Digging Hoe (the average brother can't afford), this was a new grade of hoe lol.
No condo's and cars, no nagging and responsibility, just a little gas money, dinner on her, a few movie tickets and telling her how pretty and amazing she is.
All the Pimps are shaking their heads lol.
That is probably a dream outside of the house with the bills, the priorities and the kids.
If that was what polygany really was then nigras every where would be signing up and wives would be leaving left and right lol.
Like Kah has said,that independant woman, feminist shyt be messing up sisters heads.
Its now the norm to buy your house, car, raise your kids and hold yourself together mentally & physically all alone.
So the "independant woman" just needs a man to make her feel pretty and hit it.

Black woman are becoming easy, you can tell by the caliber of our men. We are not providing them with a challenge. We do not set a high enough standard.
Men will do almost anything for woman, so if we raise the bar.....
Its sad a jobless nicca with bad intentions, and a bunch of illigitamate kids thinks he is the pick of the litter thanks to this mind set in woman.
Brothers think having foodstamps is something to offer (I heard some cats in Atlanta bragging).
Don't let him actually have a job and a little knowledge, and not be GAY, then he is God's gift.
Its sad that in the time it takes to conceive and bare a child most relationships would have already ended.
Whats even sadder is sisters have learned this lesson from experience yet they still spread eagle in under 30 days.
Ok I'm finished venting lol. Anybody care to add lol.

[gamaliel]

point well taken my sistah. glad I took sum time off . LOL

[1dell]

Dayum that was on the money honey and twasn't a DAYUm thang funny. I was mad feeling all that

Moon~Chile said:

LOL at man whore. Most men are, no offense. Who wants a man that been with 2 girls???.... Unless yall been together since High school. Somebody has to have the skillz lol.

Its different with a sister, especially one with any sense and self love.
Most woman with that many notches have started young and are probably on a road to destruction if maturity does not bring along a deep love for the self.
No male ego wants his woman to be more experienced due to the amount of lovers she had.
Lots of woman think outwardly maintenace and pampering means self love.
I think self discipline and not following your flesh, be it over eating or sexual promiscuity is really self love.

43 sexual partners, imagine how many ejaculated in her
Science says that lots of sexual partners means lots of different bacteria in your uterus which usually becomes part of you .
This causes abnormal cell growth and uteral cancer
Also on a mental scope, sex is sacred to most woman or so they say.
It is a bonding or a coming together physically , mentally and for some spiritually.
The woman is being entered internally & thats serious, with the wrong intentions it becomes a violation.

Sisters talk the talk but are just as hard up as brothers nowadays, no offense.

I was talking to a sister a few nights ago who thought she was great in bed because she had a high sex drive like the guy she had been sleeping with. Since he told her this she assumed this made her better than his other lover and more matched with him sexually (also the fact that he was hitting it).
If I was a guy I'd think hey if she wants to screw all day with me then she probably just wants to screw all day (but it does serve its purpose).
This same chic went on to tell me that she'd be down with polygany with this dude because she knew he could handle it, the only thing stopping her was the dudes Ishah who wasn't down.
She said she didn't need the dude like his Ishah did and bragged about being desired over the Ishah.
I was like whooo any dude would love responsibility free puddy girl, whats wrong with ya! But this made her feel powerful and in control.

Brothers imagine a world of no real commitment, just casual sex and some fun and games. Knowing you never had to really commit because you were already commited to someone else. The best part is "Independant Woman" from "Charlies Angels" was their theme music & they didn't need you financially. No loss!!
Unlike the Gold Digging Hoe (the average brother can't afford), this was a new grade of hoe lol.
No condo's and cars, no nagging and responsibility, just a little gas money, dinner on her, a few movie tickets and telling her how pretty and amazing she is.
All the Pimps are shaking their heads lol.
That is probably a dream outside of the house with the bills, the priorities and the kids.
If that was what polygany really was then nigras every where would be signing up and wives would be leaving left and right lol.
Like Kah has said,that independant woman, feminist shyt be messing up sisters heads.
Its now the norm to buy your house, car, raise your kids and hold yourself together mentally & physically all alone.
So the "independant woman" just needs a man to make her feel pretty and hit it.

Black woman are becoming easy, you can tell by the caliber of our men. We are not providing them with a challenge. We do not set a high enough standard.
Men will do almost anything for woman, so if we raise the bar.....
Its sad a jobless nicca with bad intentions, and a bunch of illigitamate kids thinks he is the pick of the litter thanks to this mind set in woman.
Brothers think having foodstamps is something to offer (I heard some cats in Atlanta bragging).
Don't let him actually have a job and a little knowledge, and not be GAY, then he is God's gift.
Its sad that in the time it takes to conceive and bare a child most relationships would have already ended.
Whats even sadder is sisters have learned this lesson from experience yet they still spread eagle in under 30 days.
Ok I'm finished venting lol. Anybody care to add lol.

[kAHANyAH]

damm!! u the mang homie! I ENVY U!

gamaliel said:

She's a slut for sleepin' with 43 dudes? Ive been with way more than that (not braggin)! So then that makes me a man-whore? Well not now cause I aint with nobody but during the late 80's and 90's.